Wednesday, May 9, 2012

I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

Well I love my boyfriend to pieces but I think he's cheating on me. But my friend told me that during one of his classes he flirts with another girl (by like playing with her hair) and she put mascara on him one day and drew on him another. Then after class (and the start of lunch) I always see him walking with her to class and all that other junk, but in the end he's with me at lunch (sometimes). I want to confront him about it but I don't want him to think I'm invading in his life (which I'm not my friend just randomly told me this). What should I do? Just keep to myself about this or talk to him?



P.S. sorry to keep coming here with so many relationship issues...



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

It sounds like he's cheating on you emotionally, if not physically. Best to move on. There's a lot of life yet ahead of you, and you don't need to waste the best part of it pining over some guy who is more into quantity than quality. Gently end it without drama and get busy with other stuff like school and activities and don't spend a lot of time thinking about it.



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

Get over it.



Get another man.



Move on.



or



Slap the other woman O.C style and tell her to back off!



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

LOL OC style



wassat?



anyways if you think he is



your intuition serves you right 99% of the time



you cannot love someone who make you run paranoid



dump him and move on



there are plenty of guys out there



don't sell yourself short



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

if u think he is then you r right only you know your b/f better than anyone else



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

I think you should ask your friend's for a second opinion to see if they see this as inapproriate as well. If they see it the way you see it, you should definately confront him. You're not invading his life at all, you're part of his life and him doing whatever he's doing with that girl affects you.



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

Dear, the best thing is to ask him, and if you donot want to ask him... just say how much you love him and how much you trust him. tell him that you see you other's friend's Bf are not as good and trusty as him and see how he react.



Good Luck



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

Talk to him. It may be nothing. Either way, if it makes you feel uncomfortable and unsure then confront him.



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

First call him Nancy for having on mascara. Next, quit half-stepping with people on here and ask him to his face (watch his body language when you do it-this will help give you the answer if you are not one of the dizzy ones)



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

How old are you ? If you are under 16 then you have a long way to go girl and plenty more bfs to enjoy.Tell him you want to be free. See how quick he starts to behave!! Guys don't like to be the ones told goodbye. Truat me! You won't be able to get rid of him after that even if you want to.



If you are over 16 tell him to behave or hit the road you can pick choose or refuse and you will!!



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

you the right too to confront him.. for once you are his girlfriend... if you just keep it to your self it will just build it.. like adding fuel to the fire.. confront him... it your lost.. if you won't



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

follow him and se



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

You need to ask some one who knows you both well and has an unbiased opinion. It is hard to see what is going on on the out side of the storm when your standing in the middle of it.



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

Ask him if he is cheating on you. That is a simple solution, or not really a solution, but u will know if he is or not.



He might not be cheating on u tho. He and the girl might just be friends, that she is into him. That doesnt mean hes into her.



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

i think he has eithered cheated or is considering it with her.



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

women's instinct will help you decide on things you have to do!!! If you feel that your boyfriend is doing some flirty thing, I think you have to confront your boyfriend about it... Simple conversation will help you in knowing the real thing... Try to accept all possible answers that he might give you... Think girl!!!



I think my boyfriend's cheating on me, how can I be sure?

Sounds like he likes the both of you. Don't waste your time with blind love, you're only hurting yourself. And if he really likes you, he'll choose you.

How am I doing this ??? whats the magic to this?

My boyfriend is just really "in love" with me. He says that I turn him on, I act myself around him all the time (I am not trying to seduce him at all on purpose) but, he just loves my voice, how i speak with him, I am just a relaxed and calm person, at times he stops me and just blurts out "I love you" w/such intense and "i want you". At times, when i am tired, he plays with my hair and that helps me relax abit. (I can so see him, spoiling me). But, what am I doing, for him to be this way, its like a switch that has turned him on, I don't wear revealing clothing, but you can see - I dress very sophisitcated, if i ever dress revealing, it will be down the road and for him ONLY. I think, i have control of the relationship, then he does. and yes! NO SEX, till I want to have it (i just give pieces of candy to him, once in awaile, not planning to give up the whole candy store to him SOON, maybe 5-6 mos later. He is 35 w/3 kids (joint custody) and I am a single mother of one.



How am I doing this ??? whats the magic to this?

Blah, Blah, Blah.... he's whipped and all know it......



How am I doing this ??? whats the magic to this?

Love.



How am I doing this ??? whats the magic to this?

You sound like a delicious meal to me. Dump the fairy tale loser and let me show you what you forgot.



How am I doing this ??? whats the magic to this?

You have got it going on girl - just enjoy it - he loves you!



How am I doing this ??? whats the magic to this?

If you want a puppy dog, you got it. If you want someone to be a partner in a relationship....you'll need to look further.



How am I doing this ??? whats the magic to this?

sweetie the games you playing with this guy will only get "you" hurt in the end....and as to your being in "control of the relationship" is egotistical remark....you need to get over "yourself"......actual relationships require the need of 2 people not just one...



How am I doing this ??? whats the magic to this?

Now that's a sorry excuse of a man!

Do you have 10 minutes to hear what we have to say?

Some people may like this.



Special thanks to my American friend who helped me proofread my writing.It's taken me almost a year to find some pieces of this information.



I believe that if you spend 5-10 minutes reading this essay, you will be better informed than if you listen to a lifetime's worth of Major Media news. Please don't assume that I'm a very old person. I'm just 18, and a university student studying English who just cannot sit back and let the lies fly unchallenged.



This article has two parts:



1. Cultural and general info



2. Political info.



If you wanna know the rest of of the story, read it from top to bottom.



Note: I've explained all the things that you ALWAYS talk about, so read it all plz! (Anytime you like!) Specially the political part! Any answers before reading the whole thing will prove to be wrong.



****



Hi. I'm an Iranian who has spent his life in Iran.When I chat with people from other countries, I am shocked to see how totally wrong their ideas are about Iran. I wrote this article in an attempt to help correct those ideas.



The first thing America, and the West in general, accuses our government of is that we don't allow personal freedoms. Actually, Iranians disobey laws they don't like as much as anyone. But come on, there are only a few restrictions.It's so cool over here. People here do whatever they wish to! Many strict rules in other countries don't even exist in Iran. Also, you should understand that what may seem so normal to you, may be a nightmare for us and vise versa. That's why you don't understand a few of Iran's laws because some of them are based on our culture. You look at our country from "your own point of view"! In Iran every single house has a sattelite dish. Sattelite television has a serious influence on our people, and Iranians wear very fashionable clothing. Maybe it is a kind of imitation, but we still have our own unique Iranian style (I'm talking about public places, in our privacy there's no difference). A visitor might wonder if this is a country or a fantasy pageant of beauty queens! Almost women wear half their their hair out, and make-up and fashionable clothing are everywhere.(I ignore a few fuddy-duddies though!) Iran is one of the super-consumers of cosmetics. You would be surprised to see the difference between what you imagine and what Iran really is!



In my view, everything is great, if you ignore unemployment, inflation and air pollution. But I guess these are common problems around the world today, aren't they? Also, you can't compare Iran today with the Iran you remember. The Shah and the Iatollah Khomini are both some 30 years in the past!Nearly 65-70% of Iran's population is a new generation without the biases of the past (The youth), and we've transformed everything.



Some people think women don't have any rights in Iran. But in my view, women are overrunning the place. But that's not a bad thing. They're very respectful, and they've been the winners in so many cases: They get into the best universities because they're very smart. And they get the best jobs because they can do so many of them better than men. (That's why men can hardly find any good jobs because most jobs are already occupied by women!) They've got Islamic rights, and that has in some cases made it difficult for men to marry them, because husbands are supposed to buy them expensive things and treat them very well, otherwise women have the right to ask a great amount of money (called Mehr) according to the law, which most husbands cannot afford, so they (men) will be imprisoned.The only thing that women are not allowed to do in Iran is getting into public football stadiums and that's because such places are full of cheeky guys. They do anything from taking part in rallies to singing pop songs.Anything! I've put a sample here. I feel foolish for sitting here explaining ordinary things to you.



Another funny thing: Your footage about stoning the women who have committed adultery. Have you ever asked yourselves how many years ago that footage related to? Are they balck and white or colourful? But in one case (related to many years ago) something terrible had happened which was just beyond the borders of adultery.We think being punished for corruption is good, as it deters people from doing that and the society will be far healthier than the countries in which commiting such things is considered to be normal! Iranians expect their gov't not to be soft on criminals.And for your information, most of those footages are from Afghanistan which was ruled by freaks (Taliban). What exactly makes you think women are treated differently?The way they were/are treated in Saudi Arabi? I'm sorry I didn't know "over a billion Moslems" lived there!When you think of such things, try to think of the racism in your country too. There's no perfect country!



I find it difficult to make you understand that Iran, Iraq and Afghanistan are --------- SEPERATE COUNTRIES! --------- Even within Iran, 60% of us are Persian and 30% are Turkish! I find it even more difficult to make you understand that Iran is a normal country like any other in the world. The point is, there's nothing mysterious about us! The Media are very good at creating really scary stuff: "IRAN BEHIND THE CLOSED DOORS!!!" "IRAN UNDERCOVER!!!" Some of that garbage would be enough to scare ME away! But in truth, Iranians are far more open-minded than you have been led to believe.



There are lots of Iranians today who are geniuses and scientists, and are all under age 25. You don't hear about their discoveries and inventions on TV. For instance a 17 year old boy has invented 72 amazing inventions and there are many kids like that. Every year a special scientific compition (Kharazmi) is held here and students assemble to show off hundreds of inventions. Iranian students and sportsmen win gold and silver medals in different competitions in the world all the time, in robotics, biology, maths, physics, sports, anything! Why don't the Media talk about them? Please don't summarize our nation and culture with the single word "nuclear". Although we're proud of this achievement because we believe that having nuclear energy means that a country is developed.Did you know that the countries having the highest number of scientists in the world are in this order? 1-India 2-Korea 3-Iran



A few months ago Iran uncovered the most effective anti-H.I.V medicine and it was signing treaties with other countries to export it. I searched for news of that on the internet, but there was no single sign of it. What did I find instead? "President Bush CLAIMS that bomb parts are imported from Iran into Iraq!" (The same old story!) The Media are unjust. They put CLAIMS on the headlines, but they never talk about facts!



Some interesting facts:



Iran is a pioneer in medicine and genetics, and Iranian surgeons have found lots of new methods for treating spinal defects, and many diseases (mainly the treatment for different types of cancer) and the best brain and heart surgeons are Iranian. The head of the Mars Mission in NASA is Iranian. One of the best designers of sports cars working in Germany is Iranian. Some of the best 3D animators are Iranian. Iran is one of the best countries in counter-engineering. Holds the second place in building dams and in loads of other things! It's one of the top countries in bio-technology and nano-technology. The 4th highest tower in the world (Milad tower) is in Tehran (visit it at this link from wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Milad... ). 51 of the top 100 universities in the Mid-East are in Iran, and they're among the top universities of the world as well. The champion weight-lifter, a woman, and a song by one of the pop singers who/which won the nobel peace prize are Iranians. Lots of Iranians win nobel prizes specially in the field of medicine. Iranian girls are famous for being terrific. We have Persian rugs and Persian literature, many Persian poets, artists and scientists that are world famous. Iranian culture is now westernized and only a little of the ancient culture has survived. According to statistics Tehran is the cheapest capital city in the world (one Dollar =about 950 Tomans! For example you can buy windows vista for 1 Dollar here instead of 700 Dollars!!! or 3 supper pizzas for 10 Dollars!!!wow!) There are many other things. How many pages would you need to describe a country? Iran has nearly all the industries and technologies found in 'developed' countries. Oh, and we have four seasons! (Some people think it never snows here! We get a lot of snow and there are skating rinks! lol) The list is endless.(I still feel foolish for talkng about ordinary things!)



News: "Iranian scientists managed to make human teeth grow after you've lost them using basic cells" I'm gonna introduce Iran's international news website to you (Press TV) which was established recently. It's fully in English. You'll find what they're hiding from you! In the "Sic / Tech" section you'll always see Iran's discoveries. The address is: http://www.presstv.ir/news.aspx... Press TV news: Iranian scientists have registered more than 4800 inventions during the last Iranian calendar year of 1385 (April 21 2006-April 20, 2007). 4800 inventions in just one year!



Some charactristics of Iranians would be:



Negative: We are proud, greedy, hard-working (for ourselves), not punctual, impatient, and lazy at doing our duty well, crazy about luxuries and thus extravagant! Highly competitive!



Positive: intelligent, ambitious, a bit idealistic, well-dressed, formal, well-educated, warm and friendly, hospitable.



Some people think Iran is a desert! Well, it is, if you consider California, New Mexico, Utah, Arkansas, and Alabama a desert. We share the same latitude. Iran is a modern country with breathtakingly beautiful nature and lots of historic places to visit. Please take a look at the following links to see if Iran looks like what you think or not! This is a photo of Tehran (Awesome, Isn't it?): http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/co...



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tehran



If you like you can visit these too, hundreds of pretty photos from the cities, nature and historic places: (It's like a free tour!)



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Hills...



http://www.pbase.com/k_amj/throughout_ir...



http://www.pbase.com/k_amj/throughout_ir...



http://www.pbase.com/k_amj/throughout_ir...



http://www.bigsoccer.com:80/forum/showth...



http://www.bigsoccer.com/forum/showthrea...



http://www.bigsoccer.com/forum/showthrea...



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iran



Some people think music is forbidden in Iran. Did you know that Iranian music was chosen as the best pop in France in 2005? It could even defeat Euro-pop! All Iranian songs are current pop / DJ music. I send Iranian music to my American and Canadian chat friends and they all say they're some of the best songs they've ever heard. What makes Iranian music killer, is a lot of Trance drums, catchy tune, uprising melody and incredible lyrics!



Here's a sample of the latest hits from two official Iranian music websites.You can just right click on the links below and choose "Save Target As" to download them.I guess you'll fall for it! The translation of the songs is here: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...



1.(You know this: 2007) http://download.bia2music.com/Music/Iran...



2.(Hold my hand: 2007) http://www.sarzaminmp3.com/Sarzaminmusic...



3.(The wetness of your eyes: 2006) http://download.bia2music.com/Music/Iran...



4.(I just want you: 2003) http://download.bia2music.com/Music/Iran...



5.(The rain: 2007) http://download.bia2music.com/Music/Iran...



6.(The window: 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...



7.(Keep me in your memory: 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...



8.(Farangis "A female name" 2007) http://download.bia2music.com/Music/Iran...



9.(The distance: 2007) http://www.sarzaminsong.com/Sarzaminmusi...



10.(Sunrise: 2007) http://www.sarzaminsong.com/Sarzaminmusi...



11.(Stop world:2006) http://www.sarzaminmusic.com/Sarzaminmus...



12.(You can't: 2007) http://www.sarzaminmp3.com/Sarzaminmusic...



13.(The wind's kiss: 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...



14.(Reveal your visage: 2004) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...



15.(What would have happened if : 2007) http://www.sarzaminmp3.com/Sarzaminmusic...



And so on and on!



It's now 2007 and most people still think we are uneducated people living in deserts, riding camels and carrying around guns! See how the media are fooling people?



Let's clarify some political issues as well: Some of the Americans I chatted with said in the U.S it's said that president Ahmadinejad hates the U.S and Israel and wants to nuke them!! The Media are good at putting lying comments out there. It's easy to show a video or an image of our president or leader on the TV screen or on the internet and say he says this, he says that.....I really don't get the point why our politicians defame themselves by talking about things that have got nothing to do with us. For example does verbal defence of Palestinians cause them to have a better life? The thing is that they occasionally make some statements that the media would misuse it against Iran. For example they pick up some specific phrases of a long speech (without refering to the main points and reasons for that speech) and put so many bad comments on that. No sane person would take such nonsense at face value.



First of all, Iranians don't hate anyone. If our government complains about some injustice going on in the world, it's not bad, is it? (Although what we want from them is to shut up and not get us into trouble by talking about things that are none of our concern) We hate neither Jews nor Americans. I love Americans, otherwise why would I talk to them?! How would our guys dream of America, want to be like them as much as possible, and hate them at the same time?! I've got to say that for Iran, Israel is not equal with Jews! Israel is a gov't. Jews are faithful people! A few of them live here in our neighbourhood and they live just like the rest of Iranians. No difference. And two of Iran's parliment members are Jews. Who says we want to force others to convert to Islam? Have you ever found a Muslim knocking at your door asking you to do so? It's so funny the way you imagine things and make yourselves believe in your own immaginations!



Christians and Jews are both God-believers and respectful to us. I wonder why the media like putting words in our mouth and raising hatred. In Iran, religion is one of the least important factors. Where you come from and what your religion is are not important to us at all. On the contrary, meeting different people would be very interesting for us!



I wonder who Iran is really a threat to. Is it logical to say someone's guilty because we THINK / PREDICT that he's going to do something wrong? And they repeat the same "nuclear weapons" tosh over and over and brainwash people! News headlines: "We won't allow Iran to gain nuclear weapons"!!! Correction! It's "nuclear energy". Besides, how many "nuclear weapons" do they have themselves? Hundreds of thousands? Has Iran ever attacked any countries? No. Has it developed any nukes? No! That's what nuclear agency says. Only Iran's opponents are pulling Iran's leg and what they say is of no credit. It's just based on political conflicts. What we're doing is legal. What they ask us to do (ignoring our international rights) is illegal. Iran is a peaceful country. Why? It's the regional super-power and if she wanted, she could easily invade the countries in our neibourhood just like what Saddam did to our country, but as you see Iran has peaceful relations with all of them. It can set an example to some countries that just follow their interests (oil!). Interesting! the countries accusing Iran of different things have been, and are still accused of the same things!!! How logical!



Some people say he said: Israel should be wiped off the map! But have they told you the rest of his speech and that why he's said this at all? You know that it's a passive sentence. He's never said that IRAN wants to wipe Israel off the map! He wasn't talking about destroying Israel. He was talking about relocating Israel, so that they could live seperate from Palestinians and they could both live in peace. They've only told you this phrase not the whole thing and it's mistranslated intentionally. Iran has always defended itself, but it's not an offensive country.



Some say he's said: "The Holocaust is a myth!" Again, this is a single phrase taken from a long speech and there are totally logical reasons for saying so. If 6,000,000 Jews were killed, that's terrible, but 300,000 Shiite Moslems killed by Saddam aren't important at all? Over 650,000 Iraqi people are killed and that's not important?! When Fox News simply says that America and Israel are capable of destroying and killing Iran's population of 69,000,000 within two weeks, it's OK and no one says they're threatening other countries to nuke them (I saw this with my own eyes on the Fox News website) Millions of people killed in Afghanistan, Hiroshima %26amp; Nagasaki and the Vietnam war are not considered human beings at all! Now I think you'd get the point why he's IRONICALLY said it's a myth. Moreover, don't you believe in freedom of speech/mind? I'd judge people by their ACTIONS rather than by what they say / their religion / race / culture and the colour of their skin!



Obviously, some countries are using Iran as a scapegoat to put the blame (for their own faults) on. And what country is better than Iran to be a scapegoat? The whole world believes that Iran isn't a peaceful country. I know Americans don't like this either, but what can they do? They're not responsible for controlling what the Media says. This part is just for Americans who would still argue over unimportant things: Those of you who say why Iran says "Death to America":



1. 'America' to us means the U.S govt, not the people. How do you expect Iranians to mean "American people" when our media admires Americans for marching and holding up "no war" placards?!



2. The new generation don't say such things and if some of them occasionally march in the streets that's because some of the stupid guys enjoy making noise and they mainly go out there to meet their girlfriends/boyfriends! Strange. Isn't it?



3. Such mottos are not just said in Iran and as you know whatever you hear is a response to the U.S govt's terrible actions which has made life for many people hell (You wouldn't deny that attacking countries is a mistake. right?)



4. The U.S gov't helped Saddam attack Iran and I hope you know which country gave Iraq biological weapons which killed lots of Iranians.



5. America hit an Iranian airplane over the Persian Gulf and killed 200 passengers for no reason.



8. America places sanctions on Iran, promotes a false image of Iran and Iranians, scares tourists away, and harms our economy, development and credit. To what purpose?



When you call Ahmadinejad a nutcase for what he's said, what do you call Bush for his actions? I mean it's a good idea to consider what Bush is doing to the world with his wrong decisions and lies. Bush is powerful and influencial, but Ahmadinejad is nothing.



To those who are upset with American hostages taken for 444 days:



1. Firstly, It's related to so many years ago and it's almost a part of history, and don't forget that when there's a revolution, there'd be chaos and people may do things that they should not, moreover they're all alive and healthy. Aren't they?



2.The U.S has arrested Iranian diplomats in Iraq and had tortured the one who was freed. Poor British sailors were detained by the English gov't just for saying that they were treated well in Iran and that Iranians were logical people (They said these when they were on England's soil!) They were PREVENTED from releasing their memoirs by England! Now you decide who has the right to be upset with whom. How do you believe in their lies about politics when they hide both the most and the least important things from you considering the fact that politics is the world of lies in its nature?!!! Considering all this, you'd probably be able to GUESS what percentage of what they tell you about the Mid-East, Islam, Moslems and other things is true!!! lol Some answerers still confuse Iraq and Iran after reading all this! You are in Iraq not in Iran! They're separate countries!



Isn't it better for both countries to forget past conflicts and to have peaceful relations? Our two gov'ts are like 10 year old children playing a stupid, harsh, rhetorical game. They don't care about hurting people's feelings. They just try to make our two peoples enemies to achieve their own goals. We, as the people of these countries, MUST NOT allow these conflics into our hearts. You know something? All govt's are hateful. I just said the above things because it sounds unfair when some Americans talk about the taking of the 444 hostages while I keep silence. I hope you agree on this one! Now, what do you think? I can't wait to see both nations in peace. It'd be marvelous! They've started to have diplomatic talks! (Naughty children!) That's great!



Thanks for your time



Do you have 10 minutes to hear what we have to say?

Very nicely written my friend.



Most in the Western world are very aware of the fact that most Iranians live a normal, peaceful life and want to keep it that way. Most are not radical Islamist's, but peaceful people. We all know you live very modern lives.



What none of us understand is how can a nation as a whole have a government that is so defiant against the rest of the world about everything? All countries have elements that are generally less than desirable. Yes, the hostage crisis of 1979 was a disaster of international proportions. Yet your president, Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, has so much as admitted he was one of the leaders of that terrible situation, yet he is now your president? How could that happen if Iranians truly want to be progressive and peaceful in the eye's of the international community?



Do you have 10 minutes to hear what we have to say?

no sorry. but i do think there should be a limit on how much you can post on a question. some people over do it.



Do you have 10 minutes to hear what we have to say?

Thank gosh for the good ole "Cut and Paste".



Do you have 10 minutes to hear what we have to say?

thanks your opinion is interesting



Do you have 10 minutes to hear what we have to say?

Again with this post!



Do you have 10 minutes to hear what we have to say?

With all your time can you at least ask a different question?



Do you have 10 minutes to hear what we have to say?

1- There are no personal freedoms. You force people to dress in a certain way, you kill people for adultry, you kill people if they leave Islam, you kill people for their sexual orientation.



2- Women do not have equal rights, they are forced to wear a certain type of garment and are beaten and taken to prison if they do not follow the dress code. Women are not allowed to travel outside the country without the permission of their husbands etc.



3- Your president wants to wipe Israel off the face of the world (no amount of ranting can justify this)



4- You violate the rights of your own people and detain all those who support human rights.



I could go on, but it is not worth the effort.



Do you have 10 minutes to hear what we have to say?

look man, i've met and gotten to know a few iranian people, and i found them warm, friendly folks. however your countries issues have crossed it's borders and some of your leaders focus blame on the outside for their own failures. so, either the populace can stand up and elect sane officials, or you can fight and die for a madman. i hope you could read this in under 10 minutes



Do you have 10 minutes to hear what we have to say?

I am an American and I have no problem with Iran ( especially since the Iatollah is gone) but I do have a problem with your new leader. The U.S. and Russia have both offered to help you with your Nuclear Power program if your leaders aren't making weapons but they turned both countries down. That leads everyone to believe your government wants nuclear arms.The other problem is your government supports terrorists and are interfering in Iraq.If they wanted peace they would help against terrorists. If the youth of Iran has changed your country and attitudes like you say, you people had better reel in your government and take control of it quickly.Start acting like you want to be a helpful part of the world community.You have elections in 2009 I believe.



Do you have 10 minutes to hear what we have to say?

you must have been really bored when you wrote that

African American movie quiz!!! Can you answer these correctly?

1. "If you want to kill yourself, don't **** around with it, go on and do it expeditiously."



A. Lean On Me



B. John Q



C. The Negotiator



2. "She black as tar, nappy-headed, got legs like baseball bats, and I hear she got that nasty women's disease."



A. Women of Brewster Place



B. Beloved



C. The Color Purple



3. "He helped Joshua fight the battle of Jericho, he helped Daniel get out the lion's den, he helped Gilligan get off the island."



A. Fighting Temptations



B. Coming To America



C. Kingdom Come



4. "Ya know, with all that jerry curl juice you got in your hair, you better not ever commit a crime! The police won't have any problem finding you! 'Follow the drip, follow the drip!'"



A. Madea's Family Reunion



B. House Party



C. Big Mama's House



5. "You know, maybe if I had the luxury of getting my a** whooped, I could be calm right now. But I have been drinking tequila shots, my hormones are raging out of control, I'm emotional, I'm horny, and I don't wanna hear about no go*damn peas!"



A. Deliver Us From Eva



B. Eve's Bayou



C. The Best Man



6. "She's a ho 'cause she's sending her coochie through the mail."



A. Love %26amp; Basketball



B. The Wood



C. He Got Game



7. "The only thing I like integrated is my coffee."



A. Remember The Titans



B. Malcom X



C. Cry Freedom



8. "Hell, I'm not worried... you, on the other hand, should be."



A. Waiting To Exhale



B. Two Can Play That Game



C. Booty Call



9. "I got mind control over ____(the name will give it away). He be like "shut the f**k up". I be quiet. But when he leave, I be talking again."



A. Boyz In The Hood



B. Dead Presidents



C. Friday



10. "Sit your five-dollar *** down before I make change."



A. Sugar Hill



B. New Jack City



C. Menace II Society



11. "When a man gets a hard on, you know where the blood come from, right? You know where the blood come from, right? His head and his feet. So A - he's stupid and B - he can't run."



A. Hav Plenty



B. Love Jones



C. The Inkwell



12. "You ever took a big shinny blade and just ripped a man from his *** to his appetite?! Then cut his balls off and make him squeal like a pig?"



A. Low Down Dirty Shame



B. Scary Movie



C. I'm Gonna Get You Sucker



13. "It is not my job to be jumping on and off of buses, I don't do that, I am not Carl Lewis!"



A. Rush Hour



B. Rush Hour 2



C. Money Talks



14. "I can't even get an erection. I tried taking Viagra. Popped one, popped two. I've been eating them like Skittles."



A. Bad Boys II



B. Big Mama's House 2



C. Next Friday



15. "Now how you gonna talk about size... when you one Reese's Pieces away from Jenny Craig y'self?"



A. Barbershop



B. Barbershop 2



C. Beauty Shop



African American movie quiz!!! Can you answer these correctly?

1. "If you want to kill yourself, don't **** around with it, go on and do it expeditiously."



A. Lean On Me



2. "She black as tar, nappy-headed, got legs like baseball bats, and I hear she got that nasty women's disease."



C. The Color Purple



3. "He helped Joshua fight the battle of Jericho, he helped Daniel get out the lion's den, he helped Gilligan get off the island."



B. Coming To America



4. "Ya know, with all that jerry curl juice you got in your hair, you better not ever commit a crime! The police won't have any problem finding you! 'Follow the drip, follow the drip!'"



B. House Party



5. "You know, maybe if I had the luxury of getting my a** whooped, I could be calm right now. But I have been drinking tequila shots, my hormones are raging out of control, I'm emotional, I'm horny, and I don't wanna hear about no go*damn peas!"



A. Deliver Us From Eva =guess



6. "She's a ho 'cause she's sending her coochie through the mail."



B. The Wood - guess



7. "The only thing I like integrated is my coffee."



B. Malcom X



8. "Hell, I'm not worried... you, on the other hand, should be."



A. Waiting To Exhale



9. "I got mind control over ____(the name will give it away). He be like "shut the f**k up". I be quiet. But when he leave, I be talking again."



B. Dead Presidents



10. "Sit your five-dollar *** down before I make change."



B. New Jack City



11. "When a man gets a hard on, you know where the blood come from, right? You know where the blood come from, right? His head and his feet. So A - he's stupid and B - he can't run.



B. Love Jones - guess



12. "You ever took a big shinny blade and just ripped a man from his *** to his appetite?! Then cut his balls off and make him squeal like a pig?"



A. Low Down Dirty Shame - guess



13. "It is not my job to be jumping on and off of buses, I don't do that, I am not Carl Lewis!"



A. Rush Hour



14. "I can't even get an erection. I tried taking Viagra. Popped one, popped two. I've been eating them like Skittles."



C. Next Friday



15. "Now how you gonna talk about size... when you one Reese's Pieces away from Jenny Craig y'self?"



B. Barbershop 2



African American movie quiz!!! Can you answer these correctly?

1-c =)



2-a =)



3-c =)



4-a =)



5-c =)



6-c =)



7-a =)



8-a =)



9-c =)



10-c =)



11-b =)



12-b =)



13-c =)



14-a =)



15-b =)



How did i do. I think i did ok.



African American movie quiz!!! Can you answer these correctly?

great quiz



African American movie quiz!!! Can you answer these correctly?

1. "If you want to kill yourself, don't **** around with it, go on and do it expeditiously."



A. Lean On Me



2. "She black as tar, nappy-headed, got legs like baseball bats, and I hear she got that nasty women's disease."



B. Beloved



3. "He helped Joshua fight the battle of Jericho, he helped Daniel get out the lion's den, he helped Gilligan get off the island."



B. Coming To America



4. "Ya know, with all that jerry curl juice you got in your hair, you better not ever commit a crime! The police won't have any problem finding you! 'Follow the drip, follow the drip!'"



B. House Party



5. "You know, maybe if I had the luxury of getting my a** whooped, I could be calm right now. But I have been drinking tequila shots, my hormones are raging out of control, I'm emotional, I'm horny, and I don't wanna hear about no go*damn peas!"



A. Deliver Us From Eva



6. "She's a ho 'cause she's sending her coochie through the mail."



B. The Wood



7. "The only thing I like integrated is my coffee."



A. Remember the Titans



8. "Hell, I'm not worried... you, on the other hand, should be."



B. Two Can Play That Game



9. "I got mind control over ____(the name will give it away). He be like "shut the f**k up". I be quiet. But when he leave, I be talking again."



A. Boyz In The Hood



10. "Sit your five-dollar *** down before I make change."



B. New Jack City



11. "When a man gets a hard on, you know where the blood come from, right? You know where the blood come from, right? His head and his feet. So A - he's stupid and B - he can't run."



A. Hav Plenty



12. "You ever took a big shinny blade and just ripped a man from his *** to his appetite?! Then cut his balls off and make him squeal like a pig?"



C. I'm Gonna Get You Sucker



13. "It is not my job to be jumping on and off of buses, I don't do that, I am not Carl Lewis!"



B. Rush Hour 2



14. "I can't even get an erection. I tried taking Viagra. Popped one, popped two. I've been eating them like Skittles."



A. Bad Boys II



15. "Now how you gonna talk about size... when you one Reese's Pieces away from Jenny Craig y'self?"



C. Beauty Shop



Have no clue these were just guesses from some white folk. :P



African American movie quiz!!! Can you answer these correctly?

1. C,



2.C,



3. B



4. B



5. A



6. B



7. A



8. A



9. C



10. C



11. B



12. B



13. A



14. A



15. C



I KNOW I MAY BE WRONG WITH ABOUT 2 BUT BE LENIENT,I REALLY TRIED!

Name of Late 80's/Early 90's Three-Piece group????

Hello,



I'm trying to find out the name of a three-piece group from the early 90's or late 80's that appeared frequently on MTV. They played really cheesy pop music although they looked like a hair metal glam band. One of the guys played guitar, although I doubt he was really playing it. They all had long hair and wore leather jackets/pants, etc.



Does this sound familiar to anyone? They used to play their video on Dial MTV.....the pre-TRL days.



Any help would be greatly appreciated!



Thanks!



Name of Late 80's/Early 90's Three-Piece group????

I can't think of very many bands that would be considered "cheesy" but the only 3-piece bands I can think of from around that time are ZZ Top and Rush...definitely not cheesy, and they definitely play their instruments, although bands rarely really play their instruments for videos

Hairlocs???? ADVISE PLEASE?

Has any1 ever gotten this type of extensions? ANY HORROR STORIES? very nervous about my upcoming appoint. BUT i was told its the safest hair extension technique out there! IT takes a piece of metal and a plier like tool and the hair just gets locked on to ur hair as oppose to bonding with GLUE! which is HORRIBLE_--any testimonies would be greatly appreciated :)



Hairlocs???? ADVISE PLEASE?

google it......

Can I use brown box dye to color over caramel highlights?

I have naturally dark brown hair and had caramel peek-a-boo highlights added professionally. They are growing out and i would like to go back to just one solid color being a dark brown and was wondering if I could use box dye from a drug store to do it or will the caramel pieces turn a blueish color. Am I out of luck and have to do it professionally or will box dye work?



Can I use brown box dye to color over caramel highlights?

I am qualified hairdresser so your in luck, yes you can use the dark brown on caramel highlights but to achieve an Evan colour you must apply it to your roots first leave about 10 Min's then apply the rest of brown to mid-lengths and ends leave a further 10 minutes and comb it all through, it may fade 1 shade lighter after couple of washes!



Can I use brown box dye to color over caramel highlights?

sure



Can I use brown box dye to color over caramel highlights?

It will work! after several washings though the lightness of the streaks may begin to emerge.